[SCSI] iscsi_tcp: return a descriptive error value during connection errors

The segment->done functions return a iscsi error value which gives
a lot more info than conn failed, so this patch has us return
that value. I also add a new one for xmit failures.

Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <michaelc@cs.wisc.edu>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@HansenPartnership.com>