dm: refactor deferred bio_list processing

Refactor deferred bio_list processing.

 - use separate _merge_pushback_list function
 - move deferred bio list pick up to flush function
 - use bio_list_pop instead of bio_list_get
 - simplify noflush flag use

No real functional change in this patch.

Signed-off-by: Milan Broz <mbroz@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>