kill vfs_stat_fd / vfs_lstat_fd

There's really no reason to keep vfs_stat_fd and vfs_lstat_fd with
Oleg's vfs_fstatat.  Use vfs_fstatat for the few cases having the
directory fd, and switch all others to vfs_stat / vfs_lstat.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>

Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>