dm: detect lost queue

Detect and report buggy drivers that destroy their request_queue.

Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>
Cc: Stefan Raspl <raspl@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Cc: Jens Axboe <jens.axboe@oracle.com>
Cc: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>