SUNRPC: Clean up the sillyrename code

Fix a couple of bugs:
 - Don't rely on the parent dentry still being valid when the call completes.
   Fixes a race with shrink_dcache_for_umount_subtree()

 - Don't remove the file if the filehandle has been labelled as stale.

Fix a couple of inefficiencies
 - Remove the global list of sillyrenamed files. Instead we can cache the
   sillyrename information in the dentry->d_fsdata
 - Move common code from unlink_setup/unlink_done into fs/nfs/unlink.c

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <Trond.Myklebust@netapp.com>