[DLM] fix oops in kref_put when removing a lockspace

Now that the lockspace struct is freed when the last sysfs object is released
this patch prevents use of that lockspace by sysfs. We attempt to re-get the
lockspace from the lockspace list and fail the request if it has been removed.

Signed-Off-By: Patrick Caulfield <pcaulfie@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Steven Whitehouse <swhiteho@redhat.com>