Btrfs: fix leaking block group on balance

The block group structs are referenced in many different
places, and it's not safe to free while balancing.  So, those block
group structs were simply leaked instead.

This patch replaces the block group pointer in the inode with the starting byte
offset of the block group and adds reference counting to the block group
struct.

Signed-off-by: Yan Zheng <zheng.yan@oracle.com>