USB: cdc-acm: fix incorrect throtteling, make set_control optional

this is Joris' fixes reshuffelled and features renamed as David requested.

- acm_set_control is not mandatory, honour that
- throtteling is reset upon open
- throtteling is read consistently when processing input data

Signed-off-by: Joris van Rantwijk <jorispubl@xs4all.nl>
Signed-off-by: Oliver Neukum <oneukum@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@suse.de>