mutex: Better control mutex adaptive spinning config

Introduce CONFIG_MUTEX_SPIN_ON_OWNER so that we can centralize
in a single place the conditions that determine its definition
and use.

Signed-off-by: Frederic Weisbecker <fweisbec@gmail.com>
Acked-by: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>
LKML-Reference: <1259783357-8542-1-git-send-regression-fweisbec@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Ingo Molnar <mingo@elte.hu>
Cc: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>