firewire: enforce access order between generation and node ID, fix "giving up on config rom"

fw_device.node_id and fw_device.generation are accessed without mutexes.
We have to ensure that all readers will get to see node_id updates
before generation updates.

Fixes an inability to recognize devices after "giving up on config rom",
https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?id=429950

Signed-off-by: Stefan Richter <stefanr@s5r6.in-berlin.de>

Reviewed by Nick Piggin <nickpiggin@yahoo.com.au>.

Verified to fix 'giving up on config rom' issues on multiple system and
drive combinations that were previously affected.

Signed-off-by: Jarod Wilson <jwilson@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kristian Høgsberg <krh@redhat.com>