add a struct request pointer to the request structure

This adds a struct request pointer to the request structure for the
second data phase (bidi for now). A request queue supporting bidi
requests sets QUEUE_FLAG_BIDI. This prevents sending bidi requests to
a non-bidi queue.

Signed-off-by: FUJITA Tomonori <fujita.tomonori@lab.ntt.co.jp>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <jens.axboe@oracle.com>