fuse: update fuse_conn_init() and separate out fuse_conn_kill()

Update fuse_conn_init() such that it doesn't take @sb and move bdi
registration into a separate function.  Also separate out
fuse_conn_kill() from fuse_put_super().

These will be used to implement cuse.

Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@suse.cz>