RDMA/nes: Add additional SFP+ PHY uC status check and PHY reset

Add additional PHY uC status check in case PHY firmware is not running
properly with heartbeat.  Add a hard PHY reset if uC status is 0x0
after initial reset.

Signed-off-by: Chien Tung <chien.tin.tung@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>