[S390] cio: make disconnected handling consistent

When there is no path left to a ccw device, inform the associated
device driver and act according to the response: if the driver
wants to keep the device, put it into the disconnected state.
If not, or if there is no driver or if the device is not online,
unregister it.

Signed-off-by: Peter Oberparleiter <peter.oberparleiter@de.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin Schwidefsky <schwidefsky@de.ibm.com>