vfat: change the default from shortname=lower to shortname=mixed

Because, with "shortname=lower", copying one FAT filesystem tree to
another FAT filesystem tree using Linux results in semantically
different filesystems. (E.g.: Filenames which were once "all
uppercase" are now "all lowercase").

So, this changes the default of "shortname=lower" to "shortname=mixed".

Signed-off-by: Paul Wise <pabs3@bonedaddy.net>
[change fat_show_options()]
Signed-off-by: OGAWA Hirofumi <hirofumi@mail.parknet.co.jp>