9p: make rpc code common and rework flush code

This code moves the rpc function to the common client base,
reorganizes the flush code to be more simple and stable, and
makes the necessary adjustments to the underlying transports
to adapt to the new structure.

This reduces the overall amount of code duplication between the
transports and should make adding new transports more straightforward.

Signed-off-by: Eric Van Hensbergen <ericvh@gmail.com>