IB/ipath: Fix and recover TXE piobuf and PBC parity errors

We can sometimes trigger parity errors due to processor speculative
reads to our write-combined memory (mostly seen on Woodcrest).   Add a
stats counter for these.

Factored out the sendbuffererror buffer cancellation code so it can be
used in the new handling; suppress likely subsequent error messages if
within two jiffies of the cancellation.

Also restore 2 dropped TXE lines on hwe_bitsextant noticed while
debugging.

Signed-off-by: Bryan O'Sullivan <bryan.osullivan@qlogic.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>