dlm: use more NOFS allocation

Change some GFP_KERNEL allocations to use either GFP_NOFS or
ls_allocation (when available) which the fs sets to GFP_NOFS.
The point is to prevent allocations from going back into the
cluster fs in places where that might lead to deadlock.

Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>