IPoIB: Add send gather support

This patch acts as a preparation for using checksum offload for IB
devices capable of inserting/verifying checksum in IP packets.  The
patch does not actaully turn on NETIF_F_SG - we defer that to the
patches adding checksum offload capabilities.

We only add support for send gathers for datagram mode, since existing
HW does not support checksum offload on connected QPs.

Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Eli Cohen <eli@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>