[XFS] fix mount option parsing in remount

Remount currently happily accept any option thrown at it, although the
only filesystem specific option it actually handles is barrier/nobarrier.
And it actually doesn't handle these correctly either because it only uses
the value it parsed when we're doing a ro->rw transition. In addition to
that there's also a bad bug in xfs_parseargs which doesn't touch the
actual option in the mount point except for a single one,
XFS_MOUNT_SMALL_INUMS and thus forced any filesystem that's every
remounted in some way to not support 64bit inodes with no way to recover
unless unmounted.

This patch changes xfs_fs_remount to use it's own linux/parser.h based
options parse instead of xfs_parseargs and reject all options except for
barrier/nobarrier and to the right thing in general. Eventually I'd like
to have a single big option table used for mount aswell but that can wait
for a while.

SGI-PV: 983964

SGI-Modid: xfs-linux-melb:xfs-kern:31382a

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Tim Shimmin <tes@sgi.com>
Signed-off-by: Lachlan McIlroy <lachlan@sgi.com>