IB/srp: Factor out common request reset code

Misc cleanups in ib_srp:
1) I think that it is more efficient to move the req entries from req_list
   to free_list in srp_reconnect_target (rather than rebuild the free_list).
   (In any case this code is shorter).
2) This allows us to reuse code in srp_reset_device and srp_reconnect_target
   and call a new function srp_reset_req.

Signed-off-by: Ishai Rabinovitz <ishai@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>