RDMA/cma: Remove padding arrays by using struct sockaddr_storage

There are a few places where the RDMA CM code handles IPv6 by doing

	struct sockaddr		addr;
	u8			pad[sizeof(struct sockaddr_in6) -
				    sizeof(struct sockaddr)];

This is fragile and ugly; handle this in a better way with just

	struct sockaddr_storage	addr;

[ Also roll in patch from Aleksey Senin <alekseys@voltaire.com> to
  switch to struct sockaddr_storage and get rid of padding arrays in
  struct rdma_addr. ]

Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>