ide: add IDE_HFLAG_NO_ATAPI_DMA host flag

Add IDE_HFLAG_NO_ATAPI_DMA host flag and set it in host drivers which
don't support ATAPI DMA.  Then remove no longer needed hwif->atapi_dma.

Signed-off-by: Bartlomiej Zolnierkiewicz <bzolnier@gmail.com>