[XFS] remove dependency of the dmapi module on behaviors

Mount options are now parsed by the main XFS module and rejected if dmapi
support is not available, and there is a new dm operation to send the
mount event.

SGI-PV: 969608
SGI-Modid: xfs-linux-melb:xfs-kern:29502a

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: David Chinner <dgc@sgi.com>
Signed-off-by: Tim Shimmin <tes@sgi.com>