firewire: cdev: add closure to async stream ioctl

This changes the as yet unreleased FW_CDEV_IOC_SEND_STREAM_PACKET ioctl
to generate an fw_cdev_event_response event just like the other two
ioctls for asynchronous request transmission do.  This way, clients get
feedback on successful or unsuccessful transmission.

This also adds input validation for length, tag, channel, sy, speed.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Richter <stefanr@s5r6.in-berlin.de>